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heynow14 Prowler Junkie Posts: 3529 |
posted 03-22-2005 06:16 PM
Let her go. It amazes me how quickly congress can reconvene on this matter but refuse to address the greater issues going on in this country right now.(Gas Prices etc.) If she did not have medical insurance she would have died years ago. Let her be with God and enjoy all that heaven has to offer which is definately more than a hospital bed. |
ALLEY CAT Prowler Junkie Posts: 36093 |
posted 03-22-2005 07:21 PM
First, I'll address what action Congress took this weekend concerning this issue. By passing this bill [law],, is in direct violation of the 10th Amendment to the Constitution:
"The powers not delegated to the United States by the Constitution, nor prohibited by it to the States, are reserved to the "States" respectively, or to the people"; and WHEREAS, The 10th Amendment defines the total scope of 'federal power' as being that specifically granted by the United States Constitution and no more; and WHEREAS, The scope of power defined by the 10th Amendment means that the federal government was created by the "states" specifically to be an agent of the states; and WHEREAS, Today, the "states" are demonstrably treated as agents of the federal government; and WHEREAS, Many federal mandates are directly in violation of the 10th Amendment to the Constitution of the United States; and WHEREAS, The United States Supreme Court has ruled in New York v. United States, 112 S. Ct. 2408 (1992), that Congress may not simply commandeer the legislative and regulatory processes of the states; and WHEREAS, A number of proposals from previous administrations and some now pending from the present administration and from Congress may further violate the United States Constitution. This bill should not have been acted upon by Congress,,,should not have been voted and passed,,,should not have been signed into law by the President. This is a state's rights issue, in this case Florida. As I said before, this case has traveled through 10 courts [now eleven] and before 18 judges [now to the 19th] This message has been edited by ALLEY CAT on 03-22-2005 at 07:24 PM |
quincy Prowler Junkie Posts: 1635 |
posted 03-22-2005 07:39 PM
I listened to a recording of her father talking to her at bedside. Her sounds were of pure agony. I feel she should be allowed to pass from this world. Twenty years ago my wife and I not only prepared our last will and testament, but also established durable power of attorney, along with a 'living will' stating that no machines or hoses will be utilized in a attempt to keep us from meeting our maker. Sounds ghoulish, but I even have a binder with all legal documents, will, account numbers, 401K info., bond info., final disposal wishes, insurance policies, etc., broken into sections. Both siblings have been shown this binder and know where it is when the event occurs. This will take a lot of guess work and burden off their shoulders. My father did the same thing 6 years prior to his demise...It did not ease the pain, but all in the family appreciated the pre-planing. Over 2.65 million people a year depart this earth from the USA alone. Your only fooling yourself if you do not prepare! |
halicat unregistered Posts: 1635 |
posted 03-22-2005 07:41 PM
quote: I agree..... her parents brought her into this world.... and they should decide her fate.... starving your own child ? or worse yet watching someone else decide to do it...that ain't going to happen on my shift. |
CJ Prowler Junkie Posts: 18860 |
posted 03-22-2005 08:58 PM
quincy.............I agree with you that everyone should make their wishes known and have it on paper. It's not morbid to be prepared....it's smart........and the best thing you can do for your family. |
CTProwler Prowler Junkie Posts: 3915 |
posted 03-22-2005 09:47 PM
I have a living will for just that purpose. Unplug her. ------------------ |
heynow14 Prowler Junkie Posts: 3529 |
posted 03-22-2005 09:49 PM
Did'nt we just address the issue regarding the sanctity of marriage? Did'nt her father give her away at the altar? It is her husband's decision. He is her family. I wonder if the repugnats would be so quick to have the feeding tube re-inserted if it were Hillary Clinton laying there. |
ALLEY CAT Prowler Junkie Posts: 36093 |
posted 03-22-2005 10:51 PM
A lot of negative things have been said about Michael Schiavo over the airwaves,,,,I for one do not believe any of them. First, many have said it was about the money. Fact - there was a $780,000 insurance settlement back nearly 15 years ago,,,that money is gone. Terri is staying in a hospice which provides the room at no charge, and the State of Florida is paying for the food she is fed. A week ago, Michael was offered one million dollars to sign over Terri's care rights to her parents. He declined to do that,,,,,so how can it be about money? Second, they say he was a wife beater, was vicious, and wanted her dead. Where is the proof of that? Nobody can provide proof of that statement,,no one! Next, many bring up the point about him living with another woman and having kids with her. SO WHAT!!! If at age 30 or 35, having seen your spouse in a veggie state for 5 to 10 years, and being told by countless doctors that your spouse is brain dead with no hope to recover,,,,,who wouldn't want to continue with their own life? I don't blame him for going forward in a new life, and I believe most other people would do so also. Why didn't he divorce her? Michael says he loves her, but wants closure for her. He said that she didn't want to be kept alive if this type of situation ever happened to her. Who can prove he is a liar? Nobody! Why didn't he walk away from the whole situation long ago? He is trying to provide the wishes of his wife,,,as she related them to him. He could have walked away from this matter long ago,,,,he didn't!! Michael Schiavo has proceeded with all of these court cases,,,,10 courts, 19 judges, many years of heartache, a boatload of doctor's opinions,,,,all coming to one conclusion - she isn't coming back to enjoy life as we know it. He has stayed with her,,,,,supporting her wishes about life, or lack of it! Now place yourself in Terri Schiavo's bed,,,looking up at the ceiling, looking up at and into the abyss,,,,what would she want now after 15 years of no real life? This message has been edited by ALLEY CAT on 03-22-2005 at 11:11 PM |
Thunder Prowler Junkie Posts: 456 |
posted 03-22-2005 10:51 PM
If they pull the plug, must they then let her starve to death. This is simply barbaric.....if we decide to let her die, we should at least have the guts to help her peacefully pass. We wouldn't wish that type of death on an animal or pet! |
Randy Cobb Prowler Junkie Posts: 4070 |
posted 03-23-2005 08:13 AM
I'm usually a black and white kind'a guy on things, but I can see both sides of this issue. It is basic human instinct to sustain life, but at what cost to the individual. All of my family (wife's too) have preplanned, but about 10 years ago my wife's family had an unusual situation with her Aunt. Her Aunt was suffering with cancer, had only a common will, but told all those who she saw (family, friends, doctors, nurses) that she didn't want to be sustained by artificial means. All fully understood her wishes, but towards the end the Aunt STRONGLY said to forget what she had said earlier and that she wished to fight for every day she could! 5 people witnessed this. |
David Veu Casovic Prowler Junkie Posts: 2166 |
posted 03-23-2005 08:19 AM
B. Pull the plug. |
ALLEY CAT Prowler Junkie Posts: 36093 |
posted 03-23-2005 08:36 AM
quote: Jim - my error in using the generic term "pull the plug". I think most understood what I meant = feeding tube. |
Dead End Don Prowler Junkie Posts: 631 |
posted 03-23-2005 04:48 PM
Having watched a dear friend die of Creutzfeld-Jacobsen Disease (mad cow disease) a few years ago, I sympathize with both sides. The medical reality is that there is no hope of recovery - brain tissue does not regenerate, and there is uncontroverted medical evidence (not opinion) that her brain is so severely physically damaged that there is no improvement is possible. However, up to the point of death, these patients display involuntary movements and actions that, to a desparately hopeful family, seem to show some level of consciousness. In fact, studies have proven that these involuntary movements and sounds are just that - the mis-firings of a destroyed brain. I can't imagine wanting one of my loved ones to exist in that state, but I do not think that removing the feeding tube is a particularly advanced or sensitive way to deal with the problem. We humanely put down pets when there case is hopeless, but we do not have a method of dealing with this type of situation with people.... The real problem is that medical advances have far exceeded our ethical and moral advances, and we have the technological ability to preserve "life" when we really don't have much of a plan thereafter for how to deal with the person as a human being, rather than a patient. Everyone should have a living will drawn up to deal with this kind of stalemate. |
toys Prowler Junkie Posts: 3818 |
posted 03-23-2005 06:14 PM
I have already told my My kids to NEVER EVER let that happen to me. PULL THE PLUG IT"S TIME TO LET GO Toys |
Dale Beaman Prowler Junkie Posts: 2699 |
posted 03-23-2005 09:52 PM
Maybe Terri is alive and trapped inside her body. What is she thinking and what would she say to us if she could talk. How about "he was choking me" or "he has tried to kill me while I was bedridden." Is she saying "please let me live and have may family love and care for me." Are there other people we should stop feeding because they cannot take care of themselves. Why do we have nursing homes? The talk about the Government getting involved with in ours lives is crazy - they already are thanks to all of the liberal policies and programs that we have accepted in the past 50+ years. |
ed monahan Prowler Junkie Posts: 33595 |
posted 03-23-2005 10:06 PM
I asked Sandy and she disagreed with me vehemently. She told me to pull the plug on her if she gets that way. She's blonde, left handed and better be able to feed herself for awhile or she is outa here. lol |
MDProwler Prowler Junkie Posts: 5250 |
posted 03-24-2005 07:33 AM
quote: This thought had occured to me and I believe to be that way for so long would drive a person to madness anyhow. I certainly wouldn't want to go through that. Also the mention of the husband getting rich if she dies? He stated on national TV that there was no money to be had if/when she dies. I would also think any hospital bills would far outweigh any insurance policy. This message has been edited by MDProwler on 03-24-2005 at 07:37 AM |
ALLEY CAT Prowler Junkie Posts: 36093 |
posted 03-24-2005 10:12 PM
http://www.hcdecisions.org/hcd_forms.pdf Living Will,,,,,,,copy, print, and fill in the blanks. Do it soon! Thanks This message has been edited by ALLEY CAT on 03-24-2005 at 10:13 PM |
ALLEY CAT Prowler Junkie Posts: 36093 |
posted 03-25-2005 09:53 PM
I want to thank all of you for your opinions on this thread. A good discussion without any bashing of each other. See,,,we can disagree and still get along. Here are the results from this thread's posts: A. 7 said to let her live B. 24 said to let her go in peace C. 3 seemed undecided or uncommitted Nobody is right or wrong with their opinions stated here. Its how you felt and believe,,,and I appreciate your input. |
Wayne Finch Prowler Junkie Posts: 4011 |
posted 03-25-2005 11:50 PM
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Originally I didn't have a real opinion but the more research I did, the more I have to agree with CJ. Generally a specific request to "pull the pull" I doubt I wouldn't have a big problem with (although generally not in favor personally). But this case isn't about that. The parents are clearly in a no conflict position. The husband has abandoned her and if he was truly looking out for what SHE wanted, he wouldn't be living with, and bearing children with another woman. Is that what she would have wanted too. Hardly No one knows for sure what Terri wanted. But we do know there are people who want her - and that's not her husband. There is also some possibility from court documents that the husband may have inflicted the injuries causing this condition on her. The judges say this is an irrelevant fact. Maybe in legal terms, but use some common sense. Should the government get involved. Generally, maybe not, but in this case - absolutely. The case has generally only been heard by one judge not the 20 the media suggest. The other judges are only commenting on another judges ruling. Should ONE judge have more authority than congress. Absolutely not. A judge is not even an elected official. At least if politicians step out of line, you get to toss them out in a few years. Rogue judges you are stuck with. The US has so many legal problems because of judges with way too much power and zero accountability. This isn't a case about the right to die as many people think. This isn't about politicians stepping into personal lives. This is a case where there is sufficient legal doubt as to the facts and therefore the only logical outcome would be to gather all facts before putting someone to death. It takes 20-30 years on death row before you exhaust every legal alternative for convicted killers, but you have no problem starving a mentally challanged person |
ed monahan Prowler Junkie Posts: 33595 |
posted 03-26-2005 12:16 PM
Wayne, I agree. If he injected her with something that caused the coma, he does not want to leave anything to chance that she could come back and testify that he did something. If he has her cremated, he would be able to get rid of almost any evidence that might later be used due to new techniques. DNA evidence was unheard of 10 years ago. I do not know if any of what has been alleged is true, so this is just one theory. |
Ed W. Prowler Junkie Posts: 2622 |
posted 03-26-2005 02:21 PM
OK, you asked for it. I'll do what my wife says I do best, answer a question with a question; Why doesn't the husband divorce her and allow the parents to gain custody of her? |
Ed W. Prowler Junkie Posts: 2622 |
posted 03-26-2005 02:27 PM
No humor intended here, but I'm really surprised Kervorkian's attorney isn't having a field day with all of this. ...................and Dr Jack is doing time for it.......... |
idive Prowler Junkie Posts: 8483 |
posted 03-27-2005 02:09 PM
OK, I just got to this thread and I'll appologize for the lengh in advance but I just gotta say this... Everyone mentions having a living will... Just having one, or letting those wishes be well known, even to your Dr. doesn't guarantee your wishes to be honored, or how they'll be interpreted. I'll use my father as an example here. He was in not so good shape, and his outlook wasn't a bright one. Things were more a matter of when than how. And thus, the question of how far to go came up. Nothing was in writing, but with a witness or two, you get just as good getting it verbal on the spot. His wishes were not to be brought back if he lapsed into a coma, or went into heart failure. Not to be kept alive by machines. The Dr. then asked if he had any other wishes or instructions. My dad said, "Yea! Don't kill me either." The Dr. chuckled and said they wouldn't. But did they? They stopped all medications. Removed all drainage tubes. Stopped all medical treatment all together. They only "made him comfortable" until he died, (sooner than later) because they didn't have to medicate at that point. I felt that they could have done more to prevent his death than they were doing. I felt that they put him into a position of going into the coma that they didn't need to bring him out of. I felt that his wishes we not being followed with what his intentions were. Just having a living will, or even something in writing, the Dr. is NOT obligated to honor it. And I guess, they can interperet it as they wish. My dad never meant to just let him die. It's like, "continue treating me, but if I go into a coma, or have a heart attack, let me go. Don't kill me (or just let me die)." I think, yes, his dieing was pretty much inevitable. He wasn't suffering at all. No pain. Completely coherant. They did nothing to prevent his death, and did everything to speed it up. Good or bad, right or wrong, I don't feel that his "verbal living will" intentions were honored. I don't think putting any of it in writing would have made a difference. |
Ed W. Prowler Junkie Posts: 2622 |
posted 03-27-2005 02:42 PM
.........and I watched my Dad in a comma for 9 months have countless mini-strokes in a nursing home before finally (& peacefully) succumbing to his fate. I agree there are no simple answers & we can discuss this as level headed adults until the "cows come home". But this issue in Florida defies comprehension. Given the husbands(?) track record since Terri went into a comma, I (personally) can't buy into his position. All tragedy brings enlightenment IF we look for it. |
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