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Topic: Schiavo issue,,,,,what have we learned?
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ALLEY CAT Prowler Junkie Posts: 36093 From: Mesa, Az Registered: JUL 2000
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posted 04-02-2005 09:47 AM
The Schiavo issue is now mostly behind us,,,,,WHAT have we [you] learned from the this??? There will be NO right or wrong answers,,,just your personal thoughts. PLEASE,,do not comment on what anyone else posts. No PERSONAL attacks!!!
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pumpkin Prowler Junkie Posts: 7907 From: Las Cruces, NM, USA Registered: DEC 2001
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posted 04-02-2005 10:29 AM
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butchcee Prowler Junkie Posts: 7476 From: Lake Ariel, Pa. Registered: SEP 2000
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posted 04-02-2005 10:44 AM
probably not too much AC.
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Dave and Bev DeSeife Prowler Junkie Posts: 65 From: Kenosha, WI. USA Registered: APR 2001
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posted 04-02-2005 10:44 AM
Put what you want and don't want in writing! Right now! Today! JUST DO IT!
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Lone Ranger Prowler Junkie Posts: 2120 From: Sedalia Mo USA Registered: MAY 2003
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posted 04-02-2005 11:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dave and Bev DeSeife: Put what you want and don't want in writing! Right now! Today! JUST DO IT!
This message has been edited by Lone Ranger on 04-04-2005 at 07:06 PM
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DR PROWLER Prowler Junkie Posts: 4079 From: TORONTO,ONTARIO,CANADA Registered: JUL 2002
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posted 04-02-2005 11:49 AM
We all have thoughts as to what's right and wrong and how this case should or shouldn't have been handled. All I can say is if given a choice living in a vegetative state or dying,I'd choose the later.But that's my opinion and you may differ.Is starvation a humane way to die?Definitely not,and I don't think this controversy was entirely about that. The quality of life is sometimes more important than anything else and those are our personal choices to make. Seeing Terry's images on TV was difficult and I think each one of us got touched by her agony and difficult decisions that had to be made. What have I learned? Live every day to the fullest...don't take things for granted for they may not be there tomorrow.This message has been edited by DR PROWLER on 04-02-2005 at 11:49 AM
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99prowler99 Prowler Junkie Posts: 264 From: Fountain Valley Ca USA Registered: JAN 2005
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posted 04-02-2005 09:32 PM
Get a living trust asap.
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ETMIDZT Prowler Junkie Posts: 2278 From: Spring Lake, Mi. USA Registered: JUL 2000
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posted 04-02-2005 09:37 PM
Ditto!
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rsterling78 Prowler Junkie Posts: 286 From: Huntsville, Alabama, USA Registered: MAR 2004
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posted 04-02-2005 10:07 PM
That most conservatives have a huge ideological blind spot on this issue. I'm a conservative myself and I think Terri Schiavo -- or rather the body of what had been Terri Schiavo -- should have been allowed to die without all this nonsense.My fellow conservatives want law and order...unless the law is one they don't agree with. Then they'll rush back and quickly pass a law to deal with one very particular situation. And the President will get out of bed in the middle of the night to sign it into law in his pajamas and then go back to sleep. My fellow conservatives want the government out of people's lives...unless it means intervening in a family dispute on the side of the family with which they agree. My fellow conservatives now dominate the legislative and executive branches of government because a democratic majority put them there...the same democratic majority that said the conservatives were on the wrong side of this issue and that said the legislative and executive branches of government shouldn't have gotten involved. (When only evangelical Christians were asked the same questions, a majority of them said the same thing).
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cstall Prowler Junkie Posts: 1240 From: Chandler, AZ USA Registered: JUL 2000
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posted 04-02-2005 10:26 PM
When it comes to euthanasia or right to die, it seems that it's older folks that are morally in favor and younger folks that are opposed. Since I'm a relatively healthy young buck, I personally can't grasp how anyone would NOT WANT to live. That's what I say now anyway...that could change if I started forgetting my name or crapping ny pants.
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CJ Prowler Junkie Posts: 18860 From: Rochester Hills, MI USA Registered: JUL 2000
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posted 04-02-2005 10:50 PM
Well, interesting question.1. Learned that everyone should have a living will that clearly states: a) Whether they want to be resuscitated or not, kept alive by any measures at all cost or be allowed to die without any extreme measures b) What their burial wishes are c) Name an executor of this living will 2. That no one really has the right or wrong answers to a situation like this. We would be arrested if we were caught starving an animal to death........but it's okay to starve a human being to death? 3. That life is to short as it is. We should quit wasting time fighting each other and have more compassion and respect for each other. I don't care if Michael Schiavo was her husband and legal "guardian".....as far as I am concerned, he showed himself to be a real jerk in his treatment toward his wife's family. Her mother and father had a daughter that they loved and raised and took care of in her worst moments of her life. Her brother and sister grew up with her, loved her and helped care for her. These people should have been allowed to be with her when she finally passed on......regardless of the feelings between Michael and themselves. Let this be a lesson for everyone to learn from........
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Larry Lord Prowler Junkie Posts: 3709 From: Colton, CA Registered: JUL 2000
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posted 04-02-2005 10:58 PM
Living or being alive. There's a huge differenceProlonging life? Seems to me it was more a matter of prolonging death.
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Bcoffman Gray Ghost Prowler Junkie Posts: 2418 From: Marshall,Mo.65340 Registered: DEC 2002
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posted 04-03-2005 10:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by Larry Lord: Living or being alive. There's a huge differenceProlonging life? Seems to me it was more a matter of prolonging death.
Well said Larry.
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Black Tie 161 Prowler Junkie Posts: 3563 From: MD, USA Registered: JUL 2002
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posted 04-03-2005 10:53 AM
I learned 2 things...1) Quality of life is more important than life itself. 2) Our government and media industry have no shame or conscience when it comes to interfering in private lives.
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Wayne Finch Prowler Junkie Posts: 4011 From: Toronto, Canada Registered: SEP 2000
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posted 04-03-2005 10:59 AM
I don't think the real issue here has anything to do with the right to die issue, although that is what the judges focused on.The real issue is "should a husband who potentially inflicted the damage, who has moved on, who is living with another woman, who has bourn children with another women, who may have some financial gain from her death still be allowed to make decisions for her. And I believe that is the real issue that the politicians were debating - and rightly so. They were not debating the right to die issue. The polls indicated that people with periphery knoledge on the case viewed this as a right to die issue and therefore congress should not get involved. And if that was the real issue, I would probably agree. However, perception becomes reality and the politicians saw there was no winning this from a public relations front and dropped it. What if Terri did have a living will and asked that she be kept alive. Then the question is the same. Who should look after her and care for her. Her husband or her parents or a legal arms-length guardian. This is what I think the real issue is and the courts really don't have a good answer on this
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weteyes Prowler Junkie Posts: 169 From: lindenhurst.ny.usa Registered: DEC 2004
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posted 04-03-2005 11:09 AM
hopefully the world of newspapers and courts and any form of govt will keep out of peoples personal lives....also ..whats with all those morons outside the hospital crying and praying like theyre involved ..they should get a life too...
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R/T Prowler Junkie Posts: 101 From: Columbia Heights, MN USA Registered: OCT 2001
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posted 04-03-2005 12:26 PM
Editorial in St. Paul paper about a week ago: Man possibly receiving 5 yrs in jail for starving 26 cows, Judges getting kudos for starving a living human being..... what a country!------------------ R/T
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TooHipCat Prowler Junkie Posts: 4173 From: Londonderry,NH Registered: MAR 2004
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posted 04-03-2005 12:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dave and Bev DeSeife: Put what you want and don't want in writing! Right now! Today! JUST DO IT!
Absolutely right!!! My wife and I just prior to this incident, filled out an "Health Care Directive" which had to be notarized. Our next step...thanks to my wife...is a "Living Revokable trust. We are trying to have ALL bases covered God forbid something happens to both of us. Our two children will hopefully have nothing to worry about. As far as the issue with Terri Schiavo, I'm not going down that road. My family just feels that removing her feeding tube is not something the Lord would do. Have a great Sunday everyone! Brian
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Tytanium-K Prowler Junkie Posts: 3017 From: Sweet Home Northern Bama, USA Registered: JUL 2004
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posted 04-03-2005 03:59 PM
Good question...interesting replies...but I don't think ANYONE wants to hear my views...they just want agreement! More interested in agreement than truth! So, controversies can't really be discussed on THIS board--I've noticed this during my 9 or 10 month tenure here...so, I'll remain the silent MINORITY, AC...and avoid public flogging--again!!! Wish I could believe your words WOULD BE FOLLOWED, Larry: PLEASE,,do not comment on what anyone else posts. No PERSONAL attacks!!!
This message has been edited by Tytanium-K on 04-05-2005 at 10:26 AM
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ed monahan Prowler Junkie Posts: 33595 From: Cincinnati, OH Registered: JUL 2000
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posted 04-03-2005 09:57 PM
I thought Sandy was resetting all the clocks today and it turns out she was trying to pull my plug.
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SirReal Prowler Junkie Posts: 3332 From: Burtonsville,Md Good ole U.S.A Registered: MAR 2003
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posted 04-04-2005 06:23 PM
1. Be VERY VERY careful whom you marry. 2. Family is for life. 3. Eating disorders aren't to be taken lightly. 4. Most reporters suck 5. Truth can be elusive (reread #4) 6. She didn't starve, she was starved. 7. Live every day as though it was your last.Ty-K your views are always welcome on my PC!
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xpguy Prowler Junkie Posts: 1108 From: Carlsbad, CA Registered: MAR 2004
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posted 04-04-2005 06:55 PM
Maybe Terri had a purpose. Many of us go about our lives without realizing some of its pitfalls or opportunities until something "newsworthy" brings it to our attention, be that good or bad. AIDS, Kervorkian, Jonestown, Patty Hearst, John Belushi, Kurt Cobain, and OJ are just some of the recent events that caused people to reflect and take notice of things that need attention. Right now, people are focused on this topic of incapication and hopefully many will do some planning and preparing. The pope's last few days added some additional exposure to this topic, but alas, our attentions spans are so short, this will soon be supplanted with something new, just like gay marriage is old news, but was such a hot topic just a few months ago.My prediction is the plight of the Native American is about to become center stage. Steven Spielberg just finished directing a mini-series that shows the occupation and extermination of the Native American population from the red man's view, not the white man's view. Hopefully this work will open people's eyes just like Roots did for Alex Haley. Already people are pointing to the shooting in Red Lake and talking about the plight of the Native Americans. The latest surge in the popularity of poker, particularly Texas Hold'em, has created a new boon for Indian casinos, and the tribal sharing arrangement in California will get a lot more exposure from other states. Bottom line is to keep your head out of the sand. We all cannot move to Marlon Brando's tropical island like Michael Jackson. Live and learn.
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Ed W. Prowler Junkie Posts: 2622 From: Port Huron, MI USA Registered: JAN 2003
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posted 04-04-2005 08:44 PM
OK gang, here's a suggestion to what we've learned. Given my street cred (on POA lately) this might be an improvement: Living Will I, _________________________, being of sound mind and body, do not wish to be kept alive indefinitely by artificial means. Under no circumstances should my fate be put in the hands of peckerwood politicians who couldn't pass ninth-grade biology if their lives depended on it. If a reasonable amount of time passes and I fail to sit up and ask for a cold beer, it should be presumed that I won't ever get better. When such a determination is reached, I hereby instruct my spouse, children and attending physicians to pull the plug, reel in the tubes and call it a day. Under no circumstances shall the members of the Legislature enact a special law to keep me on life-support machinery. It is my wish that these boneheads mind their own damn business, and pay attention instead to the health, education and future of the millions of Americans who aren't in a permanent coma. Under no circumstances shall any politicians butt into this case. I don't care how many fundamentalist votes they're trying to scrounge for their run for the presidency, it is my wish that they play politics with someone else's life and leave me alone to die in peace. I couldn't care less if a hundred religious zealots send e-mails to legislators in which they pretend to care about me. I don't know these people, and I certainly haven't authorized them to preach and crusade on my behalf. They should mind their own damn business. If any of my family goes against my wishes and turns my case into a political cause, I hereby promise to come back from the grave and make his or her existence a living hell. JMO This message has been edited by Ed W. on 04-04-2005 at 09:02 PM
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Thunder Prowler Junkie Posts: 456 From: Vancouver, B.C., Canada Registered: FEB 2003
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posted 04-04-2005 09:29 PM
Tytanium-KKeep posting man....I don't want to hear a bunch of band wagoners....we need the real deal....or our World ain't going nowhere. I admit I do not know all the facts in this case...the only opinion I have is that purposely starving people to death is not done in civilized societies.
This message has been edited by Thunder on 04-04-2005 at 09:48 PM
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CJ Prowler Junkie Posts: 18860 From: Rochester Hills, MI USA Registered: JUL 2000
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posted 04-05-2005 12:12 AM
quote: I admit I do not know all the facts in this case...the only opinion I have is that purposely starving people to death is not done in civilized societies.
Obviously, no one has ever accused her husband of being civilized..........didn't even wait for her to die before he had a "wife" and kids........his behavior throughout this whole thing has ben reprehensible..........
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