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ETMIDZT Prowler Junkie Posts: 2278 |
posted 04-26-2001 08:01 AM
My 17yr old, soon to be 18 wants to drive the Prowler to the Prom. He washes and waxes it. He cleans the interior. He even cleans the nasty brake dust outa the wheels. He's driven it a few times with me----But never alone! What would you do???? |
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butchcee Prowler Junkie Posts: 7476 |
posted 04-26-2001 08:12 AM
Only you know your kid Larry. Maybe the problem is not only with him, but what will happen to the car in the school lot. Another thought is that it's only a car and the trusting bond will be something he might remember in years to come---but MANY years down the road I think,-like when he has kids. ------------------ |
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Andy R Prowler Junkie Posts: 760 |
posted 04-26-2001 08:22 AM
I think Al is right, is it a car or a museum piece, it can always be fixed, repainted etc. I remember I got to drive my dad's '69 Mach I to a school dance. That was a great time I still remember fondly. (not that I'm that old at 34!) ------------------ |
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Todd Cameron unregistered Posts: 760 |
posted 04-26-2001 12:04 PM
Larry... only you know your kid... but since he seems to try and take care of the car with you... I would suggest letting him. While the car might indeed be damaged in the parking lot, THAT can happen anywhere any of us go and drive our cars... it is a risk you take the 2nd you walk away. This is a memory that will last a lifetime. ------------------ |
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CJ Prowler Junkie Posts: 18860 |
posted 04-26-2001 12:17 PM
Larry, I guess that would depend on what kind of a driver your son is.....you are also looking at a situation with a lot of young, inexperienced drivers trying to show off for each other. Not that your son would, but someone else could hit him. Tough call.........think back to when you were that age.......were you responsible enough? Would I have let my two sons? No way! They were both (and still are) hot-rodders like their father. My oldest son took out a fire hydrant once, showing off with his 72 Nova hotrod! I'm not all bad, though, I loaned my oldest son's girlfriend (who is now his wife) one of my diamond and tanzanite necklaces and earrings to match (they matched her dress). She said she was a nervous wreck the whole night worrying about them. But she sure did look great in them!!! ------------------ |
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ETMIDZT Prowler Junkie Posts: 2278 |
posted 04-26-2001 01:17 PM
Ah ha, conflict, opposing opionions---This is Good, Healthy. My kid is like any other teen when he is with friends ,I would guess. He has a date, a cool car,as do his friends. What will he do? Will he act responsibly? Guys, I tend to sway toward the male mentality. Let him have it for the night! On the other hand, my wife sides up with CJ! A life time of memorys for my Son? Or play it safe, make sure the Kat stays intact,keep the wife off my back!? Oh HELL, I like conflict. He's going to the Prom in STYLE! Son---Your driving the Kat!!!! |
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butchcee Prowler Junkie Posts: 7476 |
posted 04-26-2001 01:21 PM
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cwatsonjr unregistered Posts: 7476 |
posted 04-26-2001 01:26 PM
What a dad! My boys are 10 and they asked "Dad - what car will we get to drive when we get our license..." HAH - that was easy - the Dakota! ------------------ |
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NightProwler Prowler Junkie Posts: 426 |
posted 04-26-2001 02:24 PM
No. Prom night is a unique evening. Almost anything is possible no matter how well you know your son. NO. ------------------ |
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KenG Prowler Junkie Posts: 641 |
posted 04-26-2001 03:35 PM
Larry, I also have a 17 year old and a Prom this Saturday night. I let him drive the car when I'm with him but never alone. He's been a good kid with a good driving record but I don't think I could be persuaded to let him take it to Prom. Thankfully.....he has not asked! Good luck with your decision. ------------------ |
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Todd Cameron unregistered Posts: 641 |
posted 04-26-2001 04:47 PM
Larry, let us know how he makes out... I'm in both your corners... the reality is... one never learns responsibilty until your given some, and if there are bad consequences because of your actions, made to stand up and "face the music". Being given trust is all a part of growing up, no one ever grows up without this and learning consequences for your actions. I sincerely believe, even if something bad happens, you made the right choice. ------------------ |
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CJ Prowler Junkie Posts: 18860 |
posted 04-26-2001 05:00 PM
Larry...... Another thought to add. Whether or not your son (or mine) are (were) responsible enough, temptation is a powerful thing......peer pressure is even more powerful. What if he was persuaded to do something he wouldn't normally do? What if someone else is tempted and hits him? I'm not thinking about the car so much as kids get crazy and I was not willing to lose my sons in a stupid car crash! ------------------ |
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Dave Mills Prowler Junkie Posts: 5419 |
posted 04-26-2001 05:26 PM
My Cat was one year old when my son wanted it for the prom. He got my wife's Chrysler Concorde. He asked for the Prowler but I was more worried about peer pressure than my son. I said no. ------------------ |
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WildCat Prowler Junkie Posts: 6862 |
posted 04-26-2001 06:02 PM
if you let him drive it, go to the school and pick it up then return it so he can drive her home in it, no problem with kids being all over it in the lot. A night he will remember for life  ------------------
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Pirana Prowler Junkie Posts: 507 |
posted 04-26-2001 06:16 PM
I just let my 17yr cousin take it to the prom. Called the insurance to make sure it would be covered in an accident. Gave him the 38 minute speech, he seemed to understand the responsability and left. Brought the car the next morning, without a scratch. I guess I was lucky. He was the talk of the prom! ------------------ |
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ETMIDZT Prowler Junkie Posts: 2278 |
posted 04-26-2001 06:42 PM
Well, he bought his car (1991 Pontiac 6000) with the $$ he earns as a counsler at the "Y". He is certified as a lifesaving instructor, Is certified to administer first aid and works as an instructor in the "Y"s Cybex training complex. Is a "B" / "C" student. Dates girls to the best of my knowledge that don't smoke, chew, do drugs,they wear jewlery on their wrists, neck, and fingers. Not jewlery through their noses, belly buttons, eye brows, lips ect... Why shouldn't this kid be given a thrill that I never experienced. Understandably he does not want to drive his 1991--Understandably he doesn't want to drive our OLD people cars(LHS and or Lincoln). Don't you think he should be shown that we/I trust his judgement? I love my Prowler---but ,so does he!! |
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Todd Cameron unregistered Posts: 2278 |
posted 04-26-2001 06:51 PM
As I said... you have my full support in giving him the car for the Prom. CJ, the kids going to drive something or even be in a limo anyhow... accidents and death happen. Even if your sitting at home. No one wants to die or have harm come to those we love... but without experiencing life... your just breathing taking up space waiting for death. ------------------ |
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Larry Lord Prowler Junkie Posts: 3709 |
posted 04-26-2001 10:14 PM
Larry Herder, I've only met you twice and your son once. The thing I remember most about your son is that while at the CAAP plant, he did nothing but wipe, polish and look after your car. He's quite a hard worker and I'm sure that he loves your car as much or more than you yourself. He seemed like a very responsible young man. I remember him as also being very polite and a little shy. Letting him take the car to the Prom will make him a star for the evening and his date will be the envy of all the girls. BUT FIRST, make sure that he reads ALL of the post's from the other owners regarding their concerns. Maybe after reading the posts, he will know what a lucky guy he is to have a Father that trusts him and loves him enough to watch him drive away in the Prowler. I'm sure that he won't let you down and years from now you will both look back on this as a great bonding experience. ------------------ This message has been edited by Larry Lord on 04-26-2001 at 10:14 PM |
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Paul Prowler Junkie Posts: 807 |
posted 04-26-2001 11:38 PM
What a coincidence! My son Andrew asked to take the Prowler to the prom tonight, too! He's never really shown any interest in this car or any car so being a car-guy myself, I was happy that he showed some interest in it at all. Will I let him take it into downtown Milwaukee, park it in a public high-rise ramp and leave it? Not yet. He's a great guy, respectful, smarter than I'd ever dream of being, yet he's been driving for only 10 months. Yes, just 16. This whole event is a privelege you don't get to have when you are 16. When he's a senior, maybe. It really comes down to being a disciplined parent. Like always, it is difficult to be a child's parent....it's very easy to be a child's friend. I don't think I'm doing him any favors to give him the burden of this much car at his age. Too costly, too powerful, and too tempting. How the heck is he going to appreciate a fine ride in the future if he gets a Prowler to drive now? No, friends, my wonderful son will have to wait. The waiting, at least for this young man, is what will make him appreciate it more when his time does come.
This message has been edited by Paul on 04-26-2001 at 11:39 PM |
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CJ Prowler Junkie Posts: 18860 |
posted 04-27-2001 12:00 AM
Todd, I understand what you are saying. If he is in a limo, he's not driving. If he is in a car that is not as "hot" as the Prowler, the temptation will be less most likely. Do you have any children? If not, then someday if you do, you will understand a little more maybe. Mothers tend to be a little bit more overprotective than the fathers. Bob and I were strict parents, but not unreasonable. We taught them responsibility and accountability. They were not spoiled. They both worked in high school to pay for their cars. They are both responsible adults now, one with two sons of his own. There is a great bond between us. And they are none the worse for their upbringing. ------------------ |
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ed monahan Prowler Junkie Posts: 33595 |
posted 04-27-2001 12:07 AM
I have to agree with Larry Lord and Larry Mayes. My kids are in their 30's and they can drive the car (since they drive ambulances and ladder wagons) but where are they going to park it and how many other kids at the prom are going to try to be a big shot and drink and screw up your car while it is parked. Everyone is worried about security at our events that require staying in a hotel, much less a gathering of teenagers. Most kids are decent and respectful but there are a few you don't want around anything nice. I might let them drive to the Prom but I would have someone take me down there to pick up the car when they arrive at the prom and take it back at the end of the prom so they could drive it home, not to an after prom party where they are drinking. |
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Todd Cameron unregistered Posts: 33595 |
posted 04-27-2001 03:52 AM
No, no kids, and I doubt I will ever have them... I do remember leaving home at 15 though. ------------------ |
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ETMIDZT Prowler Junkie Posts: 2278 |
posted 04-27-2001 07:28 AM
Great responses! Thanks for your concerns! The Prom isn't until next Sat. This will allow me the time necessary to approach Josh with not only my concerns but also share the recomendations and concerns from all responding club members. He's a very heads up kid. But he still is a kid, and a father and son talk is in order. I am a fairly strict father with Josh, as I have been with all of my 4-boys. He has exibited good judgement with and through his work ethics and abides to our family rules. GREAT comments all!!!!!! |
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CJ Prowler Junkie Posts: 18860 |
posted 04-27-2001 08:03 AM
Good Luck, Larry.... Hope he has a good, but safe, time at the Prom, with or without the Prowler!!! ------------------ |
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ed monahan Prowler Junkie Posts: 33595 |
posted 04-28-2001 02:11 AM
Larry, I have four sons also. Do you think the older sons will be jealous or resentful. From your post I am assuming he is the youngest. The youngest always get more due to more disposable income since the older ones are on their own and you are generally making more money than you were when you were young. |
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